Advice about christian dating

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Jenna voiced a common concern among single Christians looking for a lifelong partner: “My spiritual beliefs and values often make dating a very risky pursuit.

I’ve been set up with guys—even ones who know I’m a Christian—who expect me to go along with their lifestyle choices: sex, drugs, excessive drinking, and the rest.

So instead of looking to check the boxes — “does he go to church? ” look for those around your potential partner who can speak of their reputation.

Over time you also want to observe an expressed seriousness in their hearts to grow and deepen their understanding of and relationship with God.

Finally, we need to hear an outside word that we can't quickly rationalize, twist, distort, or ignore. If your relationship becomes the center of their faith, the main and only encouragement they have in Christ, something has gone wrong. All four stand on their own as solid reasons to be committed to gathering (and being a member of) a local body.

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