Have you ever been told by your friends or loved ones that you are unapproachable?
Being unapproachable means that there is something about your appearance or demeanor that turns people off.
I remember several years ago, being about 20 years old, and I was out with a group of girlfriends. At least not compared to the number of men who were interested in my friends. The men seemed interested in my girlfriends, but not me. Not that I was trying to actually figure it out; I was too busy feeling sorry for myself. He pulled his head right back and stepped away from me, taking one step back, literally. I remember walking away from that club where I was at, and weeks later, started to tell myself the boring story about how men don’t want to be in a relationship with me because they were intimidated by me. The reality is that attraction occurs when there is polarity.
One can’t get clarity when they are feeling sorry for themselves. I was actually totally clueless, because it was none of that. Polarity happens when there is opposite energies, it didn’t have to be that way, it is just how it is in our universe.
She mentioned in her explanation that it was because, she comes off as intimidating to men.
Once she said this, I instantly agreed, because in all honesty she is.
Most of the time it was because they were mean muggin’ or just plain old unpleasant, nobody wants to be around that.