See when I first met Jon he was in another relationship, with my best friend.
Kayla and I met in high school and were thick as thieves from the start.
I felt like a naïve chump who was the subject of their laughter. If you find yourself in this situation, here are some tips on how to handle it and how to keep from going insane: 1. Plus, when the relationship ends, the only thing people will remember is how you reacted. DO NOT make a scene and get into a girl fight with the girl. You don't' have to be overly friendly to your ex and your friend.
They weren't even together when we started going out. She left him so it's not her business anymore who he goes out with. She would have expected the man to be a loner suffering without the wife. If you have decided to carry on with him do so by all means.
Today she came over my house and we ended up having a huge fight and I kicked her out. She said that any chance of them getting back together is gone because of me. She left him and said she did not love him anymore. Reason why she is jealous is her loss is your gain . That never happened because he got someone better than his ex wife . It is good that you chased that jealously woman from your place.
We all went on a double date where he proceeded to grill the guy I was with in a way that left both Kayla and I puzzled. We got along well, had a ton in common, but our relationship stayed strictly platonic.
Jon acted more like a jealous ex than a friend looking out, but he brushed it off as him just having a bad sense about the guy. When Jon decided he wanted to settle down and marry Kayla, he asked me to help him pick out the ring and that was my first sense that my feelings towards him were more than just friendly.
We always stuck to the “girl code” with the number one rule being “Thou shalt not covet thy BFF’s man,” that is until Jon came along.