For instance, I'd never recommend that a modern woman do as I did.
In the mid-1990s, when I was seeing the man who became my husband, we talked on landline phones late at night (when rates dropped from 25 cents per minute to 10 cents), sent just a handful of e-mails (seemed impersonal), and never texted (weren't pagers mostly just for drug dealers back then?
There is certainly no reason why we should not confess our secrets to our Lord, who loves (John ) and sympathizes with us despite knowing all about us (Hebrews -15).
Despite the fact that confession leads to healing, there are many reasons why single Christians fail to confess secrets to others, whether they be a lack of an appropriate outlet, fear, embarrassment or unreal expectations from our own churches.
The Bible has a neat answer to secret keeping: It’s called confession.
Over and over in Scripture, we see see a connection between honest confession and spiritual, emotional and physical healing: Only recently has modern psychology caught up with the Bible in terms of connecting private confession with physical, emotional and spiritual wellbeing. James Pennebaker, psychology professor at Southern Methodist University, documents a study which found that confessing our secrets can be good for the soul, lower blood pressure, lessen depression and increase your general sense of wellbeing.
The selection proves again that while the Lord may “looketh at the heart,” His people are still very much interested in outward appearances.