They bond more with their brethren since they understand each other and can empathize with their experiences and situations than their spouses.
You should not question his loyalty to you if you are living with him and your needs are being met. They do not want to put the woman in a position for her to witness messages in his phone that may hurt her.
You lose your right to question him about anything dis-satisfactory you found in his phone since you are by law not suppose to search phone.
It is comfortable and familiar to us and so we find ourselves in situations and scenes where we are likely to meet other islanders.
After enough familiar circumstances with said “type,” we open ourselves up to islanders outside of our homeland.
In the same breath, you can hear the island woman, in all her frustration, “Girl I am so sick and tired of these (___insert island heritage here__) men.” Citing constant mantras of “all a dem wutless,” making reference to their slightly accurate dating acumen that island men are more or less engineered to cheat.