Whether it’s where I’m eating, where I’m traveling or, God forbid, something I’m buying, like a lot of people in my generation—those in their 20s and 30s—I feel compelled to do a ton of research to make sure I’m getting every option and then making the best choice.If this mentality pervades our decisionmaking in so many realms, is it also affecting how we choose a romantic partner?Backpage is a very popular classified site, but you can not compare backpage to facebook of sex.
Did you ever go out on a date and wished you were home watching TV and just relaxing because you had such a lousy time? Really, when you think about it, why shouldn't it be like this?
They want the same thing that you want so why play all these games and waste all this time.
Finally, 13 years ago, I realized that if anyone was going to build the place I dreamed of, it would have to be me. When I started working on Pink Sofa, I consulted with lesbians all over the world to find out what they valued in a community.
Since then I've been working to build a place for lesbians to meet, talk, learn about each other, and (with any luck! In their responses, I found 10 words that kept coming up again and again.
I don't feel the normal empathy I would for someone I met organically," she said.