Males and females alike get nervous about approaching this subject with a new lover, as it can feel awkward or “lame” to impose a relationship on someone, simply because you’ve gone out a few times. If she’s been spending all her free time with you, then you’re who she wants to be with.
It’s always a good sign when your partner’s friends know about the two of you.
This IS the million dollar online dating question, isn't it?
To give a personal example: my wife and I had our DTR conversation the third time she came to visit…
Every time I date a nice guy, especially if I like him, I feel so insecure and wonder, what if he’s dating someone else at the same time?
And THAT can be a problem, especially when it comes to monogamy.