Hi there, I've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months, and he has HSV2 (he's had it for about a year and a half). He was so amazing about it, and I was so blown away by the fact that he told me prior to us having sex that I continued to date him.
He doesn't pressure me at all, in fact he hates talking about it; it's like he'd rather not deal with it.
When we do talk about it he just shakes his head and is seemingly convinced that he will pass it to me.
I have learned so much in the last 16 years from my own experience of dating with herpes and supporting women with herpes in my private practice and herpes Pink Tent™ support forum.
While I never chose to use a herpes dating site myself, many women out there do and I totally support them in their choice. Benefits and Risks Of Using a Positive Singles Dating Site or Herpes Dating Site 1.
The Talk: The most glaringly obvious benefit is that dating on a positive singles site can help to lessen the fear of having The Talk and disclosing your herpes status.