However, in the most difficult times, you can ask God for wisdom.
Not only has God promised to give you wisdom when you ask, He said He will give it to you and not rebuke you for asking. Reach out to God and ask Him for help in the decisions you have to make.
Various forms of prayer are presented in the Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC 2623-2649).
These various forms include prayer of blessing or adoration, prayer of petition, prayer of intercession, prayer of thanksgiving, and prayer of praise.
the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good” (1 Corinthians 12:7, emphasis added).
The infallible Word of God says the was given to each one for the common good.
A lesson on being a living sacrifice (Romans 12:1) may be gleaned from Nan Gurley's Little Rose of Sharon.