You may attend as many meetings as you like, and they are free of charge. As a fellowship of recovering addicts, Sex Addicts Anonymous offers a message of hope to anyone who suffers from sex addiction.
The only requirement is a desire to stop your addictive sexual behavior. Through long and painful experience, we came to realize that we were powerless over our sexual thoughts and behaviors and that our preoccupation with sex was causing progressively severe adverse consequences for us, our families, and our friends.
In that setting we heard stories similar to ours and realized that recovery from our problem was possible.
This is not to say she advocates hooking up with a short, fat pauper.
But she urges me not to rule out someone just because I prefer taller men: ‘It’s holding you back.
Not only has she produced an entire book on the subject (The Flirt Interpreter), but she runs ‘Flirtology’ courses. There’s a two-session Quick Fix for £299; a three-session promotion called Bag A Babe For Valentine’s (‘babe’ referring to either sex) at £399; and a three-month Ready For Change programme at £900.
As a 51-year-old divorcee who has been largely single for a year, I give it a go.
Despite many failed promises to ourselves and attempts to change, we discovered that we were unable to stop acting out sexually by ourselves.