After they form a “relationship,” they come up with reasons to ask their love interest to set up a new bank account.
The scammers transfer stolen money into the new account, and then tell their victims to wire the money out of the country.
I'm not a member of any, purely out of curiosity - I was discussing these sort of sites with my housemates which offer casual encounters/nsa sex, like etc.
They said alot of the female profiles on there are fake designed to get you to pay up for full membership.
You are a not a reflection of your husband, you are you.