Among other things, find out whether you are comfortable sharing your man’s time with his children, having his ex-wife in a future life with him and whether you are comfortable with the state of the relationship now. Don’t see him too often, meet his children too soon, get intimate right away or move in together.
This will give you enough time and space to get to know the man and assess any potential problems, such as his financial status, his ex-wife or partner and his emotional availability.
Women can have a whole different mentality about this however…Oh grow the f*** up woman, what are you a 2 yr. This sounds mad young to me, like something my nightmare of a 22 yr. Yet this comment right here is the leading excuse from women as to why they won’t give single dad a chance.
I want to find this woman when she has a kid and her bitchy ways drives the dad away and she is out trying to look for a dude as a single mom.
Just so I can flip the script on her and this bird caliber statement. Now, there are some legitimate issues with dating a dude with kids that I can understand.