You do lunch, you talk about your life and family, and you stick together through the good times and the bad, in sickness and in health.
You share your thoughts, hopes, and ambitious dreams -- there's an intimacy between you ... "It has to do with proximity," says Harley, president of Marriage Builders, a marriage counseling organization and web site.
Yes, I’d be happy to share the best friends with benefits rules so you can hook up without things being complicated.
It’s certainly possible, but it requires that you look at things honestly and set clear boundaries for yourself. (aka: how to have a friends with benefits arrangement without drama, difficulty, or disaster) This means no neighbors, no co-workers, no ex-boyfriends, no guys that are currently your friend and no people within your social circle.
and when it ends, it needs to be clean without loose ends (for you or for him).